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The Transition to Grandparenthood: A Chance to Promote Well-Being and Personal Growth in Later Life

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Abstract

The transition to grandparenthood is considered one of the most meaningful and significant events in late life, which carries with it a shift in status, roles, and identities. This chapter focuses on grandparents’ psychological well-being and life satisfaction while taking into account the multiple stresses and demands which come with their newfound role. It also highlights the process of personal growth, a positive psychological change that includes shifts in self-perception, interpersonal relationships, and priorities, and may be triggered by becoming a grandparent. The chapter reviews recent literature from around the world and concludes by describing both theoretical and practical implications, including future directions which need to be investigated, and recommendations for practitioners.

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    Orit Taubman – Ben-Ari, Shirley Ben Shlomo & Liora Findler

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Taubman – Ben-Ari, O., Ben Shlomo, S., Findler, L. (2018). The Transition to Grandparenthood: A Chance to Promote Well-Being and Personal Growth in Later Life. In: Demir, M., Sümer, N. (eds) Close Relationships and Happiness across Cultures. Cross-Cultural Advancements in Positive Psychology, vol 13. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-89663-2_6

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